I have been speaking with a guy for a while though we've only kissed there's been no other physical contact
He's older than me, and we've spoken about sex in the past and I've mentioned I've only had sex if the partner wears a condom (as it's safe plus also don't want to risk pregnancy) he's confessed he doesn't and we've spoke about what that would mean for us if we were to have sex, as he has mentioned he'd like unprotected sex with me (granted I'm on the pill)
Now, he's confessed to me, prefacing all of this as "not contagious or infectious" and speaking that his mother also struggled with this (?), that he has genital warts. He was very insistent it's not contagious and it is just benign warts that have formed there, so a doctor says
Initially I didn't say much as I took his story at face value but went away and did some googling and this is apparently a form of HPV. I am now very anxious about what this would mean for us sexually going forward and will approach this with him again but unsure if any sex at all should be considered until he does something