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Is it better to keep this from him

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SillyJilly2020 · 16/10/2025 17:27

Hi,

Basicly is it ok to not mention to my DH that some friends of mine saw some explict pics accidently of him.

He would be mortified, he is very insecure, he would quizz me about it. He wld get more upset if I detailed it all.

The girls wouldnt say anything infront of him. I currently think what he doesnt know wont hurt him?

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SillyJilly2020 · 16/10/2025 22:54

Beachtastic · 16/10/2025 22:52

What I mean is, you did nothing wrong and neither did he. A friend intruded. I don't see how that's your problem, or his.

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I thought i was responding to th3 other guy

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SillyJilly2020 · 16/10/2025 22:56

Beachtastic · 16/10/2025 22:53

I was answering a PP. I think the answer to your question is, do nothing? You've told your friend it was out of order. End of story. No need to make this into something it's not, uness you think she took copies and is about to sell them to a porn site!

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No lol I was there for most of them having the pics out. They had a giggle. Teased me a bit and gave it back

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SunflowerTed · 16/10/2025 23:25

You’ve completely invaded his privacy.. you and your immature friends need to grow up.

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SillyJilly2020 · 16/10/2025 23:27

SunflowerTed · 16/10/2025 23:25

You’ve completely invaded his privacy.. you and your immature friends need to grow up.

It is horrible but I hope you understand this was careless in my part but not delibrate

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