I’ve been living with my partner at her house for a few months now. She has two kids.
I work at my own house
we don’t seem to do much together - in the mornings I’ll make her a hot drink and go to work.
in the evenings in the week she does things with her son or goes and does some sport on her own
shes fussy with food, we don’t eat together as a family at the table and so far we’ve been unable to plan meals together or arrange food shopping.
I suspect she has adhd. I feel like she avoids me.
the house is very messy and I’m finding it hard to live there.
she has made some small changes and I realise moving into someone else’s home is not the easiest (new place together would be better)
I don’t think I’m the easiest to live with either - I’m on the spectrum I think and do the recycling ‘properly’ which has been causing issues as I am critical and direct
I have a few friends who have said to end it.
just read a similar post where someone said they felt lonely in their relationship.
we do sometimes do things but if i try talking to her it seems to make it worse.
maybe im answering my own question here but interested for opinions please
maybe we are just not right for each other. Not sure I can go through the dating apps again