After many many months of trying everything, including therapy, to save my relationship with the father of my child, I’m going to leave him tomorrow. I’m doing it in a therapy session, so that the therapist can help me to get him to understand that there may not be logical reasoning that he understands, but this is the situation and right now there’s nothing he can do to change it.
At first, I’m going for the ‘trial separation’ angle because it’s going to come as a complete and total shock to him despite consistent hints and warnings for almost a year.
I am a stay at home mum with a part time wellbeing business which doesn’t make me much money just yet, and up until this point I’ve been very reliant on my soon-to-be-ex as was the agreement when I decided to leave my job as a teacher.
I’m going to be staying at my parents for a short while, but then will need to find housing and look into what benefits I’m entitled to until I figure things out financially and decide what I want to do re childcare.
any advice? I’m sick to my stomach with anxiety over tomorrow and struggling to see how this is all going to pan out even though I know it’s what needs to happen and is the best thing for everyone involved as we absolutely cannot carry on like this