I just dont know how/what do to. I was assaulted by a work colleague at my home, nothing to serious but it occurred as I wouldn't allow her to drive while totally hammered. Police were involved, who carted her off (screaming and shouting at me). Pretty horrible situation and obviously a massive shock. Ps, we hadn't been drinking, she arrived drunk.
A very good friend of mine just didn't appear to care. I told her what had happened via text and her response was, "but shes a friend", "your not going to get her charged are you". She never asked if I was ok, or if I needed anything, that was it!!
I told a couple of other good friends who were both great, tbf I didn't need anything just wanted to off load, as I don't have a partner, just live with my two pre teens.
Im left not knowing quite what to do with our friendship! I've offered her a lot of support over the years, but didn't get as much as a "are you ok" from here.