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Completely lost

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Flowers001 · 09/10/2025 21:00

hey, I’m looking for some help please. I have two lovely teenagers and a nearly 2 year old. Older two are from a previous marriage. Dad to youngest is a liar and I don’t want to be with him, I really resent him for ruining my chance of a happy fulfilling loyal relationship. Has anyone else stayed in a relationship for the kids sakes? We tried to separate in July this year and they were all so unsettled we agreed to draw a line and start a fresh. Found out hes been lieing again (this time over money). Honestly I am so drained from it all. He’s absolutely brilliant with all three children. The older two have stopped seeing their dad this year as we have discovered he is a drug addict. The thought of unsettling their lives any further fills me with dread and sadness.

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Wrenjay · 09/10/2025 21:11

He will always lie about anything and everything. You don't want any of your DCs to think this is acceptable. Ducks in a row and do what you have to do for yourself. DCs will accept the situation eventually. So sorry you are having to do this but I suspect it is for the best in the longer term.

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