My other half never ever initiates sex anymore. He told me that it’s because I haven’t wanted to a couple of times when he tried and it’s put him off, but he definitely makes it known when he doesn’t want to either.
He used to always. And I do really like it when he initiates and prefer being submissive it’s just my thing. we always worked well together but it’s just got so awkward now it just doesn’t happen. It’s built a resentment on my side and now I find it hard to not second guess things when we do have sex, like is he just doing it because I’ve brought it up as an issue etc. we’ve been together 12 years. I’m struggling with this one. I’ve spoke to my friends who have all said they wish their husbands would try less because it’s too much. I feel jelous! Atleast they are still wanted 🫤