I have been married for almost 20 years and through that time me and husband have had problems like any other couple but we have always worked through it, we have 2 beautiful children 8 and 14 who we both adore, but the last couple of years have become tough, we have both had depression and having treatment for but my husband doesn't want to anything any more I suggest a day out for us all, oh no let's stay at home, so I end up taking kids out on my own... he recently became really secretive with his phone and eventually I found dirty pictures on his phone of a girl he is facebook friends with with messages but all deleted so I'll never know what they said, then he lost his job for "not fitting in" he said he said the manager was looking for a way to get rid of him, but he managed to get another job... he lies about little things like he has walked the dogs when he clearly hasn't... and now yet again he has lost his job because the manager is out to get him... I'm at the end of my teather he is constantly angry at home and barely helps with house work... I need advice of course I love him , but are we just not good together, I don't want my children suffering... thanks for reading