I had an emotional affair & I'm married - this man pursued me & I liked the attention after being married for years - it got boring .
this went on for a few years - more like a FWB . Stupidity I was emotionally invested & we’d meet once a year for about 10 years .
he then was so vile I realised how stupid I had been .
he was single after being divorced for the 3rd time & was involved with another lady - I sent a letter to her just warning her of this behaviour with other women including me
something I wish I’d never done .
i blocked him & moved on with my life . We had marriage counselling & we mended ourselves . I feel guilty that I may have caused him grief which was my fault as I was married
I changed numbers & phones - somehow he’s got my number 2 years after this happened & now being vile & saying awful things .
any advice ??