Exh was abusive verbally, physically a couple of times, financially and adulterous.
He would never let me be privy to the family finances. I know he squandered a lot of cash. But he would lose his temper every time I started asking questions or asked for transparency. He would get very angry. I remember him screaming at me in the car for thirty minutes because I inquired where the money from our mortgage free house sale had gone.
Anyway, we still owe the DCs old school £15k.
Exh said he’d remortgaged one of our btls to pay that final bill but he spent the money on other things. I don’t know what on. Probably his gf of the time. We were in the process of separating at the time. I didn’t know he was cheating yet again at that point.
Obviously the school are chasing both of us. He’s refusing to even acknowledge them so I’m obliged to pay. I pay off a bit every month as that is all I can afford.
I feel like his financial recklessness has left me high and dry and will take me years to make good. We had the money. He spent it.
I am just so pissed off as there are other financial issues he’s left me with. Makes me never want to ever get involved with another man ever again.