A little update on my two previous posts. I'd got sick of my partner drinking every night and being a twat on occasion on alcohol. We hot on well in general apart from this and i do care about him. He drank every night. I finished with him in January for three months but he eventually persuaded me to give it another go. We don't live together but he lives very closeby. Anyway, he was a twat on Sunday night ringing and texting and saying I fancied some bloke I hardly know that I spoke to briefly on Saturday. Not true at all. I don't flirt. End of. So i bumped into him there in the park and he said he feels great and has been decorating his flat and has been off the drink all week. I said good for you but was very dry with him. He was going on and on about how great he feels not drinking and he was off it for good. I just rolled my eyes and said well why didn't you do that after we were split up for three months? I proceeded to say we are better off as friends. He got shirty then and said he wasn't going to beg. I said it was ridiculous him accusing me of flirting with a man I hardly know and he didn't apologise. This man had won a lot of money on the lottery. I couldn't care less! He then proceeded to say he didn't like the man and the way he was getting on with me. I said that wasn't my problem! He then asked me if this man was now on my facebook! I said don't be ridiculous and there you go again. 5 days off the booze and he thinks he has seen the light and I should come running back like nothing has happened. We said our goodbyes and he went on his way. He lives very closeby and I bump into him a lot walking our dogs. It was my birthday yesterday and it tainted it a bit but Im lucky as my parents are still alive and I have a couple of close friends, my son and my dog.