Kissing

[Mum565]

If you found out that your husband had kissed other women after you had a huge argument would you leave him

How certain are you it was 'just' a kiss and he's nit minimising. How did you find out

Yes

She messaged him asking him if he enjoyed the kiss did he mean what he said about meeting up with her

Other women plural?

It’s a bit hard to answer without any context. What was the argument about? What is your relationship like generally? Hope long had he known this woman (women?)?

If my partner who I’m perfectly happy with did this, there’d be some serious conversations to be had about what the hell had happened and if we could come back from it. If a partner I was already unhappy with did this then yes - out the door he goes. That’s the final nail in the coffin.

Well at the very best it indicates that this is how he will behave whenever you have a big disagreement, so I'd be done. I couldn't be in a relationship where fidelity was dependent upon compliance.

The argument was before he kissed her she was a good friend of mine for 50 plus years

Blimey, I’d bin both of them. You must be devastated.

We have been married for 33 years and I am in my 50s

Can you outline what actually happened? My first H actually fucked my best friend. I was in the process of leaving him anyway, but I know he didn't want me to go, so it was a crazy way to put the final nail in the coffin. I never spoke to my friend again. She's dead to me.

For me once the trust is gone the relationship is done. And also if I was in my 50’s I’d be thinking life is far too short to stay with an arsehole.