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Red flags within the 1st 2 months

9 replies

9ctnothing · 17/09/2025 17:33

I have been seeing this lady for about 2 months, quiet intense chats/video calls and a few f2f dates

Recently she did not like a point of view to something she asked during the day and we had a bit of a back and forth via text which was a disagreement of some sort and never an argument, i did not reply sooner than she wanted and by bed time she blocked my number and unblocked it next morning, I was worried something happened to her all night.

Her reason? I did not want your "rubbish" messages and mensplaining to bother me during sleep.

Am I silly to this is a major red flag? we have never missed a good night at bed time etc and this way of dealing with disagreements is making me think twice

It is only 2 months and I am so prepared to call it a day because if this is what she does just because of a difference in opinion, I will lose my mind when it will be something serious.

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Idontjetwashthefucker · 17/09/2025 17:35

Ridiculous, just sack it off, sounds like you'll both be better off

Orangepate · 17/09/2025 17:37

Walk away from this one, she was extremely rude apart from anything else.

Timeforabiscuit · 17/09/2025 17:42

Way too much drama and immaturity. So yes, pretty big red flag.

YetanotherNC25 · 17/09/2025 18:14

That sounds stressful! I’d walk away.
My ex used to block and unblock the mother of his child regularly to avoid continuing the argument but it was also a punishment. And not a healthy way to behave.

Justmuddlingalong · 17/09/2025 18:19

Block and don't unblock.
Ditch her and the drama.

TwistedWonder · 17/09/2025 18:38

Unless there’s a major drip feed and you really said something awful then she’s being rude and immature.

Too much drama after a few weeks - I’d bin her off tbh

Swandry · 17/09/2025 18:39

Block her and walk away

SouthernBelle21 · 17/09/2025 18:54

Life's too short for such a dramatic relationship. Honestly, when you find the right person, life is SO simple and easy!

9ctnothing · 18/09/2025 10:23

Thank you guys. Def telling her it won't work with such approach and call it a day.

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