Hey all, looking for advice or just support please...
my husband and i have been married a year but lately i've been feeling like perhaps he's done it because I was there at the right time we have very little intamcy, or real fun together he doesnt plan dates or time away... we've been together 6 years and lived together nearly all that time at the start I was in a very very poor place mentally due to a very stressful fanily situation which took me quite a few years to properly recover from, during that time he was texting other girls, i didnt feel i could leave tbh i just didnt have the strength to, recently i've started to feel like someone that can treat you like this at such a low point is showing you something, havent held a grudge or thought about the true impact until recently (i'm a burier when it comes to feeling and emotion) i've found myself longing for attention and connection and wondering did he just ask me to marry him because he was getting older and didnt want to start again? This all seems to have come to a head/i'm realising my feelings as i'm in a transformed head space, is this a phase? Am i being unreasonable? Expecting too much? Should i be thinking about whats best for me? Even writing this feels overwhelming...