Been with partner for 6.5 years and were friends for 3 years before this. We have moved a few times and ended up taking on a renovation which has cost us much more than expected. When we got together I told him I really wanted us to be married in the next few years and he agreed. We are now over 6 years in and not even engaged. We have talked about marriage a lot but only when I initiate it and just about what we would do, there's never been a suggestion of when we will get married and can tell he wants to change the subject. I am also unhappy in our current home for a number of reasons but he wouldn't consider moving. He doesn't want kids and I didn't think I did either but we got together when I was late 20s and there's no room to even consider it in this relationship if I did change my mind. I feel like for all the big decisions, it's his way goes and I feel like I'm living a life that I didn't really choose.
To top it off that he has just been put at risk of redundancy and has 3 months to find something else. We have just went on holiday together and didn't have sex once and just felt like an emotional punchbag. I'm currently feeling so unhappy and that we don't have a future but feel like I can't leave him now. We still get along well day to day for the most part and I do love him but I feel like I'm ignoring the big picture. Any advice on what I can do? I don't want him to end up jobless, depressed and at risk of losing his home too.