I am 40 and going through a divorce that has been taking a long time to go through. After dating a couple of people and having some bad experience, I have been back on Bumble and Hinge to try again.
I am finding it soul destroying. I am well educated and have a good and well paid professional job in the city. No suggestion that I am a knock-out but I look after myself and did modelling when I was younger so I would have thought some men would think I was alright. I seem to get a lot of matches and a lot of initial nice complements etc but then I just always seem to get ghosted. Sometimes I can be in the middle of a great chat and they will just un-match me or men will reply but not ask any questions etc so the conversation dies immediately. No one ever asks me out on a date.
I keep reading these articles that there are far more men on apps and they are really struggling to get matches / dates yet I can seem to find any that are interested in me.
What is going on and what might I be doing wrong?? Please help me!