Where i live i have no friends or family nearby. I've been single for 3years since leaving a domestic violence relationship. I've tried making friends in my new town but to no avail. All I do is work (from home) & be a mum to a 13year old whose always out with their friends or at school.
Me & my neighbour who lives right next door to me started chatting over the fence 8 months ago. We borrow sugar etc, watch out for each other's houses if we're away.
2 weeks ago we were chatting through text then shared a drink in the garden. We ended up kissing but even though it was unexpected we both wanted to see where this may go.
We talked all weekend via text but since Sunday night (2 weeks ago) I've not seen or heard from him. I have text him but hes not read it, I've knocked on his door & he didnt answer even though he was home. I spoke to his friend when he was leaving the other day was my usual friendly self and asked if my neighbour was ok his friend replied "yeah hes fine".
I dont want things to be awkward between us because we are neighbours & he was the only neighbour who spoke to me but I dont know what to do. All our messages were positive, light & friendly & he was the one who said he liked the fact it was unexpected & was keen to explore things further.
He said over the last few weeks before we kissed he has ADHD and sometimes needs times to process things. He has alot going on with his mum being in a abusive relationship, falling out with his sibling & wanting to have contact with his child that he hasn't seen for 4 years because the mother wont let him. He said he liked the fact he could open up to me because he doesn't about those things with his own friends. So I dont understand what's happening or why he has suddenly gone silent or what to do now because he hasn't replied to my last message or even open the door to me