Dh lost a family member a few months ago. He was NC with them after some awful things said and done for a while. This awful behaviour was a pattern and done to other family members. There have also been issues within the family and I have always supported him. However the loss was tragic and dh seems to be stuck there. I know the loss has been recent and they are dealing with all the emotions around it, especially as they were NC.
Dh has been so withdrawn, often ignores me, sarcastic at times, and just completely absorbed in this. I asked him if he wants counselling, how can I help etc.
We just had an argument today and he stormed off.
He just ignores me when I speak to him, and then pretends he didn’t do it. I’m right there in front of him. And then he very sarcastically speaks to me and then I just had enough.
So he throws in my face how I don’t even support him when all I have done is support him. He has suddenly want to reach out to family members that also haven’t been good to him at all, and now thinks all these people are great.
was I wrong for telling him that I won’t be treated like this, even though it is only 2 months into the grief?