I've got no idea what is going on with my head recently. I've been happily married for nearly 23 years. We get on great (most of the time), neither of us has a massive sex drive, kids are now adult but still living at home and settled and hoping to move out, so this is kind of our time to shine. I've had some health problems, but lost about 4 stone, back in a size 12 clothes, and feeling healthier than I have been for years (and more attractive and hotter as a consequence - as much as any 46 year old anyway). Generally in a really good place.
But recently, husband asked me to help someone he knows through a sport he plays, who was separating from his wife (I have experience in family law), and so I have had numerous conversations with this guy mostly over the telephone, a couple in person, messages back and forth. Absolutely all above the line, nothing inappropriate, only in relation to legal stuff. Now this man is very easy on the eye, a similar age to me, and the other week I saw him take his top off to change (at the sport they play together), he has a body you dream about, and now my mind is all kind of obsessed with him. He popped into my dream the other night and I keep having this weird fantasy, imagination affair???? I'm even feeling guilty for having weird rude thoughts about this man
Is this peri-menopause playing havoc with me - I've got no idea what is going on and this is completely out of character. I think I'm just hoping someone will tell me that I'm not completely losing the plot and this will pass.........