My marriage broke down last year. In March this year I got together with a really great guy, so lovely, handsome, kind, attentive etc. He had also just come out of a marriage. It was so fun having a BF.
The issue was he had no boundaries at all. He told everyone about us after just a couple of weeks, including his DC and his ex-wife - and seemed completely taken aback that they were discombobulated and upset. He told his flatmate every detail - and then she got upset, despite him being kind of aware that the flatmate maybe fancied him. He told his colleagues (we know each other loosely through a professional network). He canvassed everyone’s opinions and fed them back to me.
It was just chaos. I felt like I was having a relationship with people I had never met. I ended it.
Six months have passed - mostly no contact - but we missed each other (we are well suited). And now there is a possibility we might get back together.
Could you make it work with someone who doesn’t really understand boundaries like this? He is really worth it. All tips welcome.