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Buggz71 · 08/09/2025 22:56

My boyfriend and I are in a LDR. We had a lovely weekend. He says he feels very tired today granted he had a busy few days before the weekend and another today.I suggested he take this coming weekend to rest and recover and we not see each other. I am beginning to worry that he he won’t be able to keep up with how things are currently and soon he’ll be holding me back from doing things and living my life. Should I break things off now?

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Lmnop22 · 08/09/2025 23:00

Why is him being tired after a few busy days in a row evidence that he will hold you back?

You are the one that suggested not seeing each other this weekend to rest; not him.

Also, it wouldn’t hold you back to not see him this weekend/every weekend. You can live the side of your life that doesn’t involve him and see friends/family/pursue hobbies.

Breaking up with him for saying he’s tired is extreme in my opinion!

Buggz71 · 08/09/2025 23:07

He often books in so many things to make sure he is always busy and fits seeing me in around his other commitments then after seeing me says he is tired. I haven’t a problem with that at all he is a few years older than me and at a totally different stage in his life.

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