hope this is right section for this. Most of my dates are coming from apps and I struggle with how fast they want to move. I am rather reserved personality and prefer taking the things slow. Never been the type who wants to rip off their date shirt on a first or second date. Most men attempt to go for a proper kiss on a first date, putting their arm around me, ie moving fast (for me) with a physical touch etc. Doesn't help also being in London as life here is very fast pace. I prefer to move slowly, maybe a slight hug at the end of the date, light peck in a cheek as max. need a couple of dates to kiss and definitely more than few dates to be intimate. I need to get to know them as a person better, establish an emotional connection to move further. I am dating men in their 30ies and 40ies.
Does anyone else have the similar struggle? I really feel as an outlier as it seems most people are comfortable being physical early.