Newly single at 35 and wanting children

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My last post explains where i am now. My ex partner is deeply troubled and has now decided that he can’t get better or fix his issues whilst being a partner to me.

I have a strong sense of self, I know that I am a good person, not a troll to look at, and I am a good partner.

I was hoping for some inspiration stories that will reassure me that my life isn’t over! I’ve had friends meet people in the last year and they are now engaged/having babies so I do know it’s possible!

Would you solo parent? A friend from my nct group got tired of waiting for the right guy and did it herself.

I met someone at 34 got pregnant on purpose at 35 and split at 36… lots can happen in the next few years but I have a lovely boy!! So much better to wait or be a solo mum by choice than to have a baby with a useless prick

If I were you I would get my fertility levels checked, freeze eggs if need be and then spend the next year dating really intentionally

I met my DH at 35, married 37, and had DC 38, nearly 39. It wasn’t plan A, but I’m so glad I didn’t settle for the partner I had in my 20s or early 30s. Keep hoping and actively try to date who you are looking for.

My first marriage went spectacularly wrong when I was 35. Quite by chance I met my second husband 6 months later. And that was 20 years ago!

Just started dating a single mum who is 34 and i def would settle with her and she wants more kids too so why not?

i am 37

I was newly single at 33, met someone at 34 who I married at 35, first child at 36 and a second at 39.

Either way, you are out of a relationship that was never going to make you happy so focus on that win for now!

Theres lots of men on bumble desperate for having kids. Ive had to reject loads because they want kid's and i dont

Agree with pp. A lot of eligible men looking to have children on bumble!

Get Some fertility tests if you can. I met someone aged 34, married a couple years later and now aged 39 been TTC for over 2 years and nothing.