I am in my 30s and still at home as for about 2 years I had ill health so had to spend some of my savings to live off. Tonight my dad tells me he and my mum want to move 3 and a half hours away as they have spent time away recently and now’s the time. My mum wants the house sorting for moving.
My brother has been away too and doesn’t like our area anymore, it’s gone downhill.
They talked about this 25 years ago and they said they would not move while their parents were still here. They were good to their parents and looked after them through their old age.
My heart felt a pang of sadness as that is my childhood home. I have never really lived anywhere else. I have stopped at my boyfriend’s more recently as he was living with his mum who passed away so he wants the company.
A move would be good for them but then their new home won’t be their holiday location anymore and would be a way of life.
I know it’s their life and they can live where they want. I just don’t know what I would do never being able to go back home.