Just don’t know what to do 🙈

[Missj25]

Hey everyone 🙂..
So getting straight to it ..
I met a guy start of the summer on old ..
Nice guy , geuine , nice enough looking..
Thing is , I hated the way he dressed & his car was not clean picking me up , both gave me the ick , went on 2 dates & I decided not to pursue ..
Since that he has messaged here & there , I always ignored being honest until this weekend ..
He asked me straight out in a very polite straight forward manner what happened, & said he would just like to know as the dates he felt went well & he will never contact me again .
So I told him 🤷🏻‍♀️..
He sent laughing faces & said ‘ why didn’t you just say’ & we chatted more ..
Now I’m after roping myself into another date but iwhat if I’m just panicking cause I’m nearing 50 🙈..
Should I give him a chance , I don’t want to lead him on but my gut feeling is , I’m not feeling it 💯, but is that ok ? ..
So ‘ Gym bunny ‘ , ‘ ItGhoul’ , ‘Arlanymor ‘ if you are reading please advise me ! And all other posters who may have helpful advice for me that read aswel ..
Thanks in advance X

I would, as kindly as possible, be honest with him. It might not necessarily change anything for you, but could help him going forward.

Easily fixed imo. Dh's house was A TIP

Our current home isn't.

He thought he would be bringing his sandals when he moved in..
He didn't..
All good 13 years down the line...

Did you know from the beginning though that you did really like him pp ? Or on the fence like me ..
like I just don’t know if feelings of being ‘ on the fence ‘ like me are feelings I should be feeling when meeting someone new 🤷🏻‍♀️