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Do I believe him over WhatsApp message?

9 replies

Help456 · 31/08/2025 20:50

So I am currently 7 months pregnant and last night was the last night before mu DP officially moves in with me.

We were at his and I went to the bathroom, his phone was on the sink playing music so I picked it up to turn the music off thinking it would be on the Lock Screen. However, his phone was unlocked and I think in a moment of madness and hormones I saw WhatsApp and opened it.…

There was a message from an unsaved number saying “nice one - see you then”. The picture was of a woman on a beach. Again, it might be the hormones and feeling a bit insecure about my changing body.

I couldn’t bring myself to read the trail, but I did tell him I had seen the message. He said it was organising a game for his sport.

Do I believe him?

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Hilly87 · 31/08/2025 20:52

I would ask to see it. His reaction to that will tell you all you need to know

Queenofheart · 31/08/2025 21:10

“Nice one” isn’t a phrase I’d expect a woman to use, but I agree with pp, I’d ask to see messages

Thecatthatgotthesouredmilk · 31/08/2025 21:15

Was it the first message I the WhatsApp feed? Or were there other messages between them? If the former, it looks like he deleted the previous chat.

fedup078 · 31/08/2025 21:22

I think if you were going to snoop you should have at least read some more of the messages before saying anything to him . This could be completely innocent. I have all sorts of messages on my phone with unsaved numbers . Workmen for stuff on my house, car mechanics ,nail technicians , many kids party invites I’ve replied to . It could be have been anything . So if it is innocent and he’s telling the truth I’d be really pissed off if I were him .

mindutopia · 31/08/2025 21:41

On the face of it, it doesn’t sound like the sort of thing I’d say to some guy I was hoping to shag. It sounds like two mates discussing plans, which is what he said it was. I mean, apart from the fact the sender appears to be female, the message content isn’t suspicious. I have WhatsApps from unsaved numbers saying all sorts of things, some of them are men - Airbnb host for flat in Spain, my friend’s partner who happens to be a farrier who was going to come look at my horse’s hoof.

cool4cats2020 · 31/08/2025 22:09

On the face of it, what you've described sounds completely non suspicious. Do you have other reasons not to trust him?

16plusDC · 31/08/2025 22:12

Sounds like his mate has his girlfriend as his profile pic.

Sidelined101 · 31/08/2025 23:11

I say nice one and I’m a woman

Coffeislife · 31/08/2025 23:14

Unless he is having a relationship with Nessa I think you're safe, it doesn't sound like a Ea phrase

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