This evening I've been sent an anonymous message via social media with evidence that my partner of 11 months has cheated on me.
I'm going to condense this as much as possible but I have had my suspicious which I have not told him about and I have just sat back and watched what he says and does the last 4 weeks or so and he has contradicted himself twice , again ive said nothing as I felt I needed proof, actually I said something once and he massively gaslit me.
I was blindsided at the time but I have known deep down this will have to end this eventually as I can't trust him. I was processing so to speak.
Fast forward to this evening I have had an anonymous msg via social media from a man who has sent screenshots to proof my partner and his have been having an affair .
He said he will not tell either of them he has told me to give me time to process.
I've already made my decision it is over. No going back for me. The trust has completely gone and it will never be the same relationship again.
Apart from all of that I feel sick at the thought of seeing his face ever again let alone him touching me or sharing the same bed
My small dilemma and something I need advice on is my next step
So this evening he is out with friends.
We Do not live together, I am due to see him tomorrow.
In any other set up I would block, delete move on. Maybe tell them first via txt msg that I know what I know and that be it.
This is where it gets complicated, he is my neighbour and lives 3 doors down from me
I know , I know stupid of me !!
So the usually block delete may not work as he's going to see me in our street he is also likely to knock on my door.
I live in a small village
I'm not alone I have family and friends in the nxt town, but I also don't wnat to feel I have to run away and never go out in my village ever again!
Any advice welcome please.
I need to hatch my plan before tomorrow morning when I know he will be messaging his usual txts about seeing me tomorrow daytime
This is our usual routine so I know he will contact me , late morning at the latest
Shall I block now? What should I do??