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Age gap

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Shootingstar1111 · 25/08/2025 17:41

I’ve recently joined hinge after 3 years of being single. Before that I was in a very toxic relationship for 9 years which took me a long time to get over..
a guy “liked” my profile and first look he looks lovely, handsome and going off his bio really funny. Then I saw his age 27!! I’m 37!
I replied saying I was flattered but the age gap feels too much.. he’s been lovely and said age is just a number etc and would love to take me out.
My profile makes it clear I’m only open to dating, I have 2 children and a full time job so a relationship is not something I want but company is, someone to go for meals with, cinema dates etc. He is the same as his long term relationship finished in December.
My friend thinks I should go and have some fun and if neither of us are looking for long term then it doesn’t matter but the age gap freaks me out and I don’t know why! If he was 10 years older than me then I wouldn’t care!
what would you do?

OP posts:
ForTipsyFinch · 25/08/2025 17:55

I think it’s fine for what you’re after. Nothing to lose by meeting up and see if you click.

hattie43 · 25/08/2025 18:24

I think it’s fine if you’re compatible, in 20yrs it’ll be even less significant

User2025meow · 25/08/2025 19:00

Definitely 👍 I’d go for at least a coffee. You never know-why can’t a woman have a fling with a younger man?? Enjoy!

Thatsthebottomline · 26/08/2025 19:39

The golden rule to remember is that is perfectly acceptable providing your not a man.

A woman of 50 dating a man of 25 no problem, a man of 50 dating a younger woman is always a no.

Remember, he pays for everything too.

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