Confused with men !

[Sunshineismyhappy]

following my last post, I’ve been seeing someone for around 4 to 5 months…. Been getting on great he’s been behaving my house quite a few times going on days out, my family. Just recently he’s not wanting to go out as much just sit in front of the telly when he comes over doesn’t really want to make an effort with family events ect…..

I take all your advice on board and had a really good chat with him about what he wants within a relationship. He basically replied saying I would like something more eventually. But happy doing days out and catching up.

So basically, he’s not really that bothered about me ? Or do you think he’s just taking his time? I’m really confused.
Thanks all…

He wants to scale it back to see you more casually, and keeping you waiting around by saying he wants more eventually, sounds like his interest has worn off for anything serious, I certainly wouldn’t wait and hope.

Your previous thread said he distant put a label on you being a couple after 5 months and now he doesn’t even want to do anything other than watch tv - you’re wasting your time, he’s a low effort loser. Dump his useless arse

I think if after 5 months he’s not clear whether he’s in an actual relationship or not then you need to finish it. You can’t keep things go with the current dynamic and he’s not committing more to anything by the sounds of it.