My ex partner of 13 years of who I have 2 DC with left me in April. He said he was sick of bickering and wasn’t happy which is fair enough in reality I wasn’t happy due to him changing jobs 2 years ago I work 8-4 he worked 5-1am so we didn’t see each other and I kept asking him to spend time with me and dc as we seen each other 1 hour a night all week it was really getting to me so yes i was moody but he always thought I was having a go. I am still so heartbroken but seems like he is so happy. He is in his 40s and Since he left been on 2 lads holidays goes out twice a week on night outs which he hadn’t ever went out as was never interested in it met someone else 6 weeks after who he sees 1 night a week on a Wednesday. He still has no money still living with his mum he is obviously having to have children more than he was used to as they were with me every night when he lived here and trying to work still as a taxi driver. My point is I just feel so hurt that he can dedicate a night out for her once a week and wouldn’t do it for me and his dc and was whole reason I was unhappy I am struggling to move past the accepting he’s moved on to how could he do this in the first place when all I ever asked was for him to spend time with us. He acts like he totally hates me now but it was hard for me to accept he came out of a ltr and straight into another one. I know already I have a better life as I have lost 3 stone I can go to gym I have a social life I have more money decent job and do more things with children but I sit and cry every night feeling so worthless like how he could leave me and his new life has not improved yet I made him unhappy. Sorry for long post