Is this dodgy behaviour?

[Piggywiggydoodlepip]

What would you think of a man who criticises you, and then when you get upset accuses you of "being in the huff"?

Then when you are even more upset refuses to give you a few minutes to yourself to to think, get your head together?

Is this gaslighting/manipulation?

Waaat? He needs to be gone

It’s not gaslighting, it’s simply unpleasant behaviour. Why tolerate it?

🚩 x 1,000,000,000 etc.
Get him in the sea, pronto.

This is what scares me. If I finish with him, what he might do.

From someone who’s been in this position to stay around to see it escalate, my advice is run.. now.

Oh blimey. All the more reason to get out sooner rather than later then.

You simply cannot stay in a relationship with someone you are scared of.

Thanks for all your replies. They really help.

How long have you been together? Does he live with you? Do you have children? Do you have any support in real life?
Please don't stay with anyone who scares you, it will only get worse.

Do you live together op? Just trying to offer suggestions of staying safe if you leave him.

He sounds really nasty.

We don't live together, and we don't have children.

That’s actually horrific. Sally Challen’s husband used say “ Don’t question me”. An acknowledged abuser and monster.