I have recently split from my 11 week old sons dad.
We fell out over the way he was towards my other 2 children (from a previous relationship).
Anyway we weren't talking and he went out with his parents (who had come down for the weekend) with our son.
I went off into town myself and saw him and his parents and they blanked me.
I have felt for a while now that his mum doesn't really like me, shes made very snide comments about do I ever cook etc etc.
Anyway I ran up to them and basically lost my rag, told my partner to get out of my flat and went to get our son back from them.
His mum started getting involved and I told her it was nothing to do with her but she continued to go on so we ended up rowing.
She accused me of neglecting her grandson and saying that I don't do anything.
The police got involved as they heard shouting and she proceeded to say exactly the same thing to the police. Said I didn't bath my son, couldn't be bothered to buy him nappies etc.
My ex just stood there and didn't even deny this.
He has now moved back to the Midlands with his mum and dad and I have tried contacting him to sort things but he is ignoring me.
I feel betrayed that he could stand there and let his mum say such crap about me and not say a word.
He has always been a mummys boy, she is very dominant and even his dad does what she says.
I know I was in the wrong for reacting the way I did but it feels like I am being blamed for it all.
Just want opinions really as to whether I should try and continue to get him back so we can be a family again or let him get on with it.