Hello!
So the title says it all. I think I said too much on my first date with someone.
Met online, been chatting well over a week. He seemed very keen. I was going on holiday and he wanted to chat while I was away, but I shut it down as I wanted to enjoy my holiday and not text someone I’ve never met! Anyway zoom forward we met after I returned, he wanted to pick me up from my home but I said I was happy to drive to our date.
We spent over 3 hours chatting and walking, really nice. We got on well and naturally divulged a lot about our relationships etc. He was possibly a bit more shy than I would be go for and not much banter. However I would have been open to maybe go on a second date.
Where I think I might of messed it up was right at the end, he is a vet and I mentioned that my daughter would like to be a vet but struggles with maths as she has adhd. Then a bit further down the conversation I said that she probably gets the adhd from me 🤣 And that I like to be honest as I prefer things to go slow at the start. I have no idea why I said this, it just blurted out!
I’ve not dated for a while so I’m finding my feet.
I don’t think he will be in touch, he just said a nice good bye with a bit of a coolness. So I doubt I’ll hear anything from him!
ah well, it’s a learning thing and he probably isn’t the right person for me. Ideally I’d like someone I can have a real laugh with x