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A little rant

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Leedsmum86 · 17/08/2025 17:20

I'm just having a little bit of a rant so it's been one week that I've been single and a friend of mine had screenshot me a post that might ex put about me I was on Tinder and he's seen me on there but he screenshot my page and he's plastered it all over his face book saying that I won't leave him alone I haven't bothered him since we split up he's got me blocked on Facebook and Instagram. I've deleted his number and I've got nothing to contact him on which I'm glad. he's making out like he wants to get on with his life but if he's screenshotting my personal stuff it just shows you he hasn't moved forward

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Suednymph · 17/08/2025 23:08

he screenshot your tinder profile and is posting that on his socials without your consent is that it?

HappySummerDays · 17/08/2025 23:12

So you’re on tinder a week after you split from him and he’s saying you’re hassling him?

Arlanymor · 17/08/2025 23:16

Fairly hypocritical of him to rant about you being on Tinder when he has to be on there in the first place to know that you are on there! Is he lacking some brain cells?

Tell your mate you are not interested in what he is doing. Block him on all social media and move on with your life. I couldn't give a monkey's what any of my exes say about me and neither should you. You're free now - look forward.

Arlanymor · 17/08/2025 23:17

Suednymph · 17/08/2025 23:08

he screenshot your tinder profile and is posting that on his socials without your consent is that it?

He doesn't need consent to post a Tinder profile on his socials.

QPZM · 17/08/2025 23:18

Didn't you start a thread the other day saying 'how can he be on dating sites as soon as we break up?'

You had a terrible relationship anyway.

Why not just concentrate on raising your kids and keep away from dating and drama for a while?

MotherJessAndKittens · 17/08/2025 23:19

Block him from everything

Arlanymor · 17/08/2025 23:21

QPZM · 17/08/2025 23:18

Didn't you start a thread the other day saying 'how can he be on dating sites as soon as we break up?'

You had a terrible relationship anyway.

Why not just concentrate on raising your kids and keep away from dating and drama for a while?

Oh I hope not - otherwise that's hypocrisy on top of hypocrisy!

Pumpkintopf · 17/08/2025 23:22

Suggest to your friend that this isn’t helpful and you don’t want to hear about him. Ignore the drama and move on.

Arlanymor · 17/08/2025 23:26

ACatAsleepInYourHat · 17/08/2025 23:25

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TwistedWonder · 17/08/2025 23:44

So a week after your relationship ended you’re both back on dating sites? Not exactly letting the bed go cold either of you.

It all sounds very immature and a waste of energy.

You have kids right? Maybe concentrate on them rather than useless men

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