We have been married for 14 years and have two kids together. Our Relationship has slowly deteriorated over the past few years, with our busy lives getting in the way. Neither of us made an effort and we allowed ourselves to get caught up in all the functional stuff and drift apart. He became withdrawn, l became a nag. Everything fell on my shoulders- organising kids, finances, holidays, days out, house stuff, etc (I also work). But l expected our marriage to get better- I knew it was a busy stage with two young kids. However, two weeks ago, my husband stayed out late and cheated on me with someone else. He told me about it the next day. He has been staying at his mums for the past two weeks. He has apologised but it doesn't seem sincere. He isn't fighting or making any effort to show that he wants to work on our marriage. Yes he says he does but he shows no effort to make a plan, etc. even just asking if I want to go out for a walk to talk without the kids there would be a start. I honestly don’t know what I want. But I am finding it hard to want to work on our marriage since he isn’t showing me that he will do anything to make it better! Do I walk away now? Is it too late to save this marriage?