Advice needed

[ThisMintWasp]

I've been talking to this guy a while now, but hadn't met until today, so we really get on, the vibe is really good, he's not my usual type but attraction growing a lot with how easily things flow.

Now here is where I sound really shallow and I feel super guilty about it, we have done videos calls etc but always dimly lit.

But today when meeting I noticed he has quite a lot of damage to his teeth and before anyone says I'm a horrible person, I feel bad enough and I don't know the circumstances to what caused it and didn't ask as obviously I wouldn't want to make him feel uncomfortable and when laughing he covered them so clearly is self conscious of them!

Does anyone have any advice, because I really like him and could see things working out with him, but feel like a bad person if I continue things with this sort of judgement and it feels super rude to ask about them and what happened etc 🤦‍♀️

Depends on the damage, just chipped or broken teeth, maybe ok but I couldn’t be with anyone with discoloured, rotten teeth.

One is chipped and also discoloured and at least another two discoloured, I'm not entirely sure about the rest, I was trying not to make it obvious I was looking at them 😅 I'm not entirely sure what has caused it, whether like an injury or something like that, as in a video I've seen of him in 2018, they looked normal and white, so I'm not sure what's happened with them, but I really want to ask but know it's not really nice to ask 😅

If he is not missing teeth does he play a sport that could cause damage?

Not sure that would cover the discolouration.

Does it speak to health in general?

OP decent, kind men are few and far between. It seems as though you've met someone who you get on well with, I assume he's respectful and has a decent vibe and you say the attraction is growing. I would give him a chance because teeth can be fixed and the pickings are few.

its a hard one as you don’t want to embarrass him. I just don’t understand why people look in the mirror and decide to ignore the state of their teeth! He’s clearly very conscious about it so why not see a dentist?