Hopefully I’ve posted in the right place. Any advice would be appreciated.
I’m starting to think that the man I’m seeing might have a bit of a porn obsession. It seems like nothing is ever good enough for him when it comes to sex. We’ll try one thing, and then he immediately wants to move on to something else. I get that trying new things is part of the fun, but everything is still pretty new for me, and I’d prefer to take it slow, while he wants to jump into everything right away. We’ve had sex a few times, but he’s really pushing for anal, which I’ve never done before, and he knows that. He keeps pressuring me to try it. He even wants me to practice in the shower with my fingers. I mentioned earlier that I wasn’t sure if I felt comfortable with it, and he said that was okay, but not to stall and make a decision soon. So, it feels like I can’t even think it over?
He’s also really into boob wanks, making me squirt, and he wants to cum on my face. There’s a bunch of other stuff too, like wanting to have sex in public and asking me to take pictures of myself out in public (he even asked me to take one in Tescos the other night, but I said no). I did send him a photo of myself at his request the other day, and his reply was, “thank you for doing that, I really appreciate it.” It felt kind very “transactional” if I’m honest.
He’s already told me that he loves me, but I’m really not sure how I feel about all of this.