We’ve been married for eleven years and we have one four year old child together. I honestly can’t remember the last time we slept together, he’s just not interested in sex. That wouldn’t be so bad if he just showed some affection one in a while. He doesn’t make conversation. He just has a very oppressive way about him, never shows love, joy, or enthusiasm about something. It used to work well in that I’m quite emotional and we balanced out but not anymore. I told him some brutal truths last night; that I wasn’t happy in the marriage, etc but this morning he is just acting as if nothing happened. Nothing will ever change. I feel the only thing keeping me here is the security aspect, because he earns a good salary and we have a nice house, awful of me I know. Fed up.