I am in a relationship of 2 years me f60 him m60 and im sad and confused
I’ve always felt that im a bit needy with him.. he’s not very warm and loving but generous and not a flirt or womaniser
He’s always commenting on everything I do ie getting my nails , hair done buying clothes saying I can’t afford them I don’t ever ask him for money ever so don’t think he should comment also telling me I’m too much and 60 now so pack all the pampering in
i had a big heart op 2 years ago and like to treat myself as it’s been hard health wise anyway
it’s come to a head the last month he took me on a beautiful holiday to Greece .. he worked hard to pay for it and I was grateful to him I brought 1000 euros as a contribution and also because I’m proud like that
He upset me at the breakfast table one morning because he doesn’t like talking til after 10
rather than stay and fight I removed my self
went for a walk and did some shopping
when I returned he got of the sunbed and walked off came back and we didn’t speak until later in the day
we made up ( me feeling sad but didn’t want to spoil things .. we were intimate that night which I’m upset by also because he was having those bad feelings about me and had sex .. and the holiday continued him trying to rule the roost constantly
we’ve returned and it’s been hell he’s told me he wanted to get a flight home to get away from me because I went off for two hours .. says I’m hard work because sometimes I huff and puff couldn’t think of anything else I do , and to stop trying to help him and asking if he’s ok as he doesn’t need it .. I really don’t think I did anything wrong
im really heart broken hope I don’t sound stupid I don’t want to ask my friends as they know about the put downs about my appearance we just can’t seem to get back on track and I’m just devastated