Husbands sisters have previously told me they do not support my marriage. They have told me they are never going to lose their brother to me, (wierd) and said they cry themself to sleep because they can’t call their brother anymore. When my husband said they can absolutely call whenever, they have not done so. Not once. It’s all games.
They are very annoyed we have our own life. We have to explain reasons of what why when, when we can’t make every single celebration. For eg a birthday recently we didn’t have the money to go to as it was $1,000 a night and we got told “thought you’d show up. You used to show up?”
Obviously they’re painting me as the bad guy. Most recently the older sister text my husband today saying we are treating them like they are nothing, that they should be in the wedding, my husband replied but it should be my last wife’s closest people her like her ride or dies and she said but we are your ride or dies. They have zero interest in having a relationship with me, I extended and invited them to my wedding dress shopping, one didn’t show up. Now there making my husband feel terrible.
Am I obliged to have them, should they be putting this kind of pressure on my husband. I really don’t see why they think they should be part of it, if they don’t like me. It’s like keeping up with the jones, always some drama.