Please can I ask some advice to check if I’m going mad or overthinking !
my friend and I were very close, did lots of stuff together and a new friend to them has come into the picture. She has managed to push out all other mutual friends who have just said not playing games and left the friendship group and I still keep in touch with them, but my friend doesn’t and thinks it’s all them and not her! I am single these are the friends are married so the fact that they have left the friendship group really doesn’t matter to them but to me I am feeling the hurt of the following scenario incredibly badly. So in simple terms, my friend has stopped asking me to do things with them saying they are too busy with work but frequently they are posting pictures on Facebook of being out with this other girl. Often at expensive events when they’re trying to tell me they can’t go out because they’ve got no money. I have tackled them about it and they say they don’t intend to make me feel left out and they throw back in my face that we went on holiday together so that was a big thing and they wouldn’t have gone on holiday with me if they didn’t want to be my friend However every time I see one of these Facebook posts it literally makes me feel sick. The trouble is how many times can I tell them how I feel other people say ignore it and come across as the fun person but I am someone that really needs to say what I’m thinking and I’m getting to the stage where a shot of banging their head against the wall I can’t make them realise What they’re doing to me. Please tell me if I should continue with this friendship or just cut my losses and just block them.