Hello. My best friend is in an emotionally abusive relationship and I'm really struggling with how to help. I'm going through my own divorce atm and any time I try to offer advice she will say it's because I'm bitter or jealous. Her husband has cheated on her before and has blamed her for it. She's happy to blame herself. She has very little self esteem which he always criticizes and blames her for little things. He gaslights her alot. He always puts himself first and she is left running around trying to fix things. He's the perfect gentleman is front of me and their family. He is away atm on a work trip but spends his time out drinking and hanging out with women and doesn't care that she gets upset about this. He's happy to tell her what's hes up to but this upsets her further although she says he's honest at least. She stopped talking t me for a while the last time I mentioned it and I've told her I will stay out of her love life but I get so worried. How can I help her? Thank you for any advice