I’m new into the dating world having recently separated from my DP.
I went to a wedding recently with some friends and met a man there, we chatted for a bit and we kissed. We swapped numbers (regret that one now!), and he proceeded to send me quite a few messages every time I went to the bar saying how great the kiss was and how we had so much in common. He wouldn’t leave me alone, and made me feel very uncomfortable. By the end of the evening he was very drunk and very handsy. So I left.
I then received several more messages over the next few days about how great our connection was, he couldn’t forget our kiss, and that he hoped we would keep seeing each other.
Eventually I sent him a message saying that I wasn’t planning on seeing him again, that I had a lot going on, and didn’t want anything, it was just a bit of fun but I didn’t want to hear from him again. Thankfully we don’t live near each other.
I then received a phone call from a number I didn’t recognise, on answering realised it was him, he thought he would phone for a chat and tell me it was such a shame that he wasn’t going to see me again but understood. I hardly said a word, being as I’d just said to him I didn’t want to hear from him. He then messaged me saying what a lovely chat we’d had (had we?), then I received some more messages this time with him getting more and more pissed off, that I’d led him on (eh?), and we had a connection. He got quite angry at the reasons I gave for not wanting to see him again. He’s now blocked.
Is this dating now? The red flags from this guy and the entitlement! Like I owed him something? Thank the lord he doesn’t know where I live as I genuinely feel a bit scared. It feels very unpleasant, like he was just going to keep trying and wear me down until I said yes.