Last year I filed for divorce-a lot of reasons, some being aggression but also multiple affairs (all of which he denied).
He's a rubbish father to our sons (19, 15 and 8)
He is refusing to engage with the divorce, not answering letters from my solicitor so I keep having to pay a process server to physically hand them to him.
He is away A LOT with work (genuinely, he has always done so and his head office is in San Francisco and they have offices in Canada as well). Last week my adult son was contacted on SM by a woman who obviously was suspicious about her partner (yup, my husband). She sent loads of photos of them together. (Including a video of her leaping into his arms at the airport- that hurt).
He's at home right now and I don't want to risk him being angry. However, he is in SF again at the weekend for a month and I plan to send him the evidence and ask him to just bloody well go along with the divorce.
Has anyone got any thoughts or ideas? I'm not into retribution or shouting matches, I just want him gone. We co-own the house.