Just asking if anyone else has had this,my partner has been seeing men behind my back for years! I only found out a few years ago,he doesn't know I know,I am unable to confront him and I'm not sure how he will react also have financial commitments to at the minute (but these are getting sorted and am starting to get ducks in a row)he has been on hook up sites and some of the things 🤮these men say it's because us women don't give them sex! What a load of trash,I have tried and tried but all I get is excuses upon excuses why he won't get intimate with me,I know I have put weight on which probably hasn't helped the situation. He has medical issues which he uses as excuses but it doesn't stop him meeting these men. I just feel so miserable and can't look at him in the face. He actually told me I could go and find someone else to have sex with but isn't me to be honest. He now has a f* buddy also who he sees now and again and some of the messages they post to themselves are just something else,puts our sex life down like how he was getting bored when we were doing intimate things and how I was rubbish at it etc,just looking for a bit of support,thanks x