I am so distressed.....I have constant anxiety sadness and physical pain due to the way my twin sister treats me. I love my sister dearly and have always seen her through any problems in her life. However if ANYONE else comes along I'm virtually dropped. She's even made friends with an ex friend of mine and told me I can't go out with you at the weekends as I'm now going out with L. This was 16 years ago. As a result I moved house to a place 20 minutes away where I had friends. A month later she was at my door as she'd fallen out with L Anyway this picking up dropping down has gone on all our lives. But now she is still living in the same place I lived with my younger sister opposite who has daughters and a grandchildren and they all get together for cuppa and chats. My younger sister has never bothered except when her husband went off and then she turned to me to get them back together then dropped again. I'm so hurt. I feel so used by everyone but my twin is where it really hurts. She now has her sons girlfriend in her life recently and once again I'm dropped. She banned me from joining the leisure club all the rest of the family go to saying she wants her own space. Recently she ignored a message I sent about a house around the corner from where she and my sister live and no response...she followed this up with dont whatapp me or call ....she did later say oh I only said that because if you're down it drags me down. I've seen her through her whole life as we both divorced and had one son. I'm feeling so hurt by all this I'm in physical pain. I'm so betrayed and used.....having been there for ever I'm now feel as an outsider...I'm 66 and single and didn't want to end up this way..help!