I’ve been with my fiancé for years, always lived apart and only recently moved in together. We are getting married within the next few months. We’ve always got on so well, hardly ever argue and both DCs get on so well. The problem is since we moved in he is so critical of everything, it’s driving me mad. Eg housework, what DC does and compares it to his DC. We’ve already discussed how to try and live harmoniously and I just assumed we would continue to be open with each other but the criticisms are doing my head in. It’s completely taken the shine off the wedding planning and I’m worried that my feelings are changing.
Obviously I expected that this change in living arrangements may raise some issues , we both have our own way of doing things, but it’s the daily moans that are wearing me down and making me have second thoughts. I’m willing to meet him halfway but he doesn’t seem to reciprocate.
I’m trying to be positive, to hear his side as well as get my point across, but not sure how much longer I can keep this up. It’s like I’m seeing a different side to him.
So, I’m not sure whether this is just pre wedding nerves, or whether things will settle down over the next few weeks, but doubts are starting to creep in.
Not sure what I want from this thread, guess just needed to get this off my chest. Don’t want to speak to anyone IRL about it, because I feel silly and childish.