Split up 2 years ago and I was fine when we did, no dramatic tears or slumps. I was quite relieved when we split too, he left me with all the outstanding bills from the place we shared, he was pretty rude to me towards the end, he was very lazy around the home and we had generally just grown incompatible.
Now, 2 years on, he’s had another relationship (over now), I haven’t. He’s still sometimes unkind, he can be inconsiderate when it comes to co parenting. Yet somehow I think in the last couple months I think I’ve re developed some feelings. It’s illogical because I don’t really like him even though I’d say we are good friends for DC. When I’m around him I have to remind myself that I don’t really want to be with him. He does make the odd pass at me but makes it very clear he doesn’t think I’m what he’s looking for. He even made a comment that he was nicer to his recent ex after me because he said he found it easier to be nice to her.
What’s wrong with me?