Husband chatting to lots of woman

[IwishIwasonholidaytoday]

My husband been chatting to loads of woman online and asking for photos sending etc I stumbled upon on threads a week ago today . I wasn’t even looking for anything . I’ve had a hysterectomy in March and been very poorly since with infections. I’m broken . I live in “his house “ he bought it with help from his dad after we got married . Hes moved in with his dad atm , my husband knows he’s done wrong , but I’ve not seen him face to face since Saturday last week . He just said he was “bored” and reckless . He said it was a confidence boost but he was saying things on the posts like “ a bit far for me “regarding the woman’s location , they asked him questions like “can I whatapp you?” And he replied “definitely “ He said he had no intention of meeting these woman (most look like AI scammers ) . I’m absolutely broken I don’t know what to do , any advice welcome .

Take some time to heal, @IwishIwasonholidaytoday
It's only been a few days and you're struggling with your health as well.
Nobody needs you to know right this instant what your next steps are going to be. You are overwhelmed with emotions and you should take some time to process them. Any decisions can be made after, with a clear mind.

Do you have a support system? Can you talk to anyone?

He sounds awful. You're recovering from a big operation with all the emotional distress that has and he's busy communicating with other women as he's 'bored'.

I'd get legal advice regarding the house and finances.

@IwishIwasonholidaytoday you are married so he may think it’s house but you have rights .
He has let you down when you most needed him , he has shown you who he is .

Seeing you are married "HIS house is also your house.

Joint assets when you marry.

I hope you recover from the infections, and your procedure.

I hope you recover from your DH sordid secret.

This was probably not his first chat pic rodeo. But first time being caught by you. Of course he will tell you what he knows you will want to hear in order to keep you afloat as a marriage. But YOU found the messages, not him coming to you to tell you he had been bored and daft, and done what he's done.

So I say he got comfortable thinking you would not find this out. He got sloppy.

I am sure you are reeling from this, and also trying to come to terms with who the heck is this man you married.

Is he worth your time and your life? Is he worth giving another chance? Or would that be opening the doors for him doing this again and again, but be more careful and hide his tracks better next time?