I’ve been seeing Cam, a guy I used to work with at a pub where he’s the manager. He’s got a reputation for sleeping around and had an on/off relationship with the pub owner's daughter.
He recently had a brief crush on a girl who worked there, and they hooked up, but she never saw him again and it was only a ONS.
In July, he went to a party they were both at, and apparently, he was staring at her the whole night and kept chatting to her.
Everyone said that they didn’t hook up again.
He apparently is quite starey when they do bump into each other, she apparently caught uim checking her out a few times
In the past, I’ve had flings with a few of the guys at the pub, including a brief situationship with Cam last summer (June-September). It started after Harry, another guy I had a fling with, told him he was still in love with me.
During my time with him, he would only invite me over after a night out, saying he didn’t want to be seen with me in public or have people know we were together. When I asked about it, he’d claim he didn’t want things to be awkward with Harry.
Despite this, he would get possessive when he saw me flirting with other guys, even though I told him it was just casual. I found out I was pregnant, and when I told him, he said things like, “I’m so in love with you,” “You’re the love of my life,” ‘i’ve always loved you’, ‘your my dream girl’ and that he was buying a house and he would buy a bigger house for us to move into with the baby
Yet, he still ignored me in public.
I decided not to keep the baby and stopped replying to him.
We reconnected in December and hooked up again in over Christmas and in January, but this time there was no cuddling after.
He made me walk behind him past the pub so no one would see us together.
In February, I found out he had a girlfriend. However, in March/April, we hooked up again, even though he was with her, and he still messages me constantly.